Tuesday, November 17, 2009

If a guy you went out with twice is fixated on you and sends flowers and gifts what should you do?

He tells everyone he loves me and wants to marry me. I am just not interested in him and like someone else. He isn't really stalking me but he sends love notes and flowers and expensive presents almost every day. He is rich and thinks he will win me over.

If a guy you went out with twice is fixated on you and sends flowers and gifts what should you do?
"What's love got to do with it, got to do with it?" I'm with Tina Turner on this one. Gracious! He sounds wonderful. Does he have a gay brother?
Reply:Be nice.





Tell the guy you're interested in someone else, so he can move on and be interested in someone else.
Reply:Just tell him that you only want to be friends and not interested in him like that. Guys are used to that. It's called the "friend zone" and they all know what that is. He will be a disappointed and get a crushed ego for awhile but I think it's much worse to keep taking his gifts because your leading him on and that can hurt him more. Just be kind, but honest and let him know thanks but no thanks. He probably won't go crazy on you. He just won't call you anymore.


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