Is it bad to send flowers to yourself to make your partner jealous? we work together and i just ordered an?

arrangement to be delivered to our office, with a note from a "Secret Admirer" LOL

Is it bad to send flowers to yourself to make your partner jealous? we work together and i just ordered an?
ROMANCE ALLOWS FOR A LOT OF THINGS.





It seems innocent enough in the game of love. He might feel flattered if/when he finds out the truth (I think I would)." But it's not clear what you mean by "partner"--business or personal or both?





However, romance allows for a lot of things, and what you've done hurts no one that I can see and unquestionably helps the florist industry.





Since the flowers have already been sent, focus now on how you're going to handle it from here. What will you say if he asks about them? Put yourself in his place, try to think like he does. If he's strictly a business partner to date, how might this affect your business relationship?





But by all means, ENJOY your beautiful flowers when you get them, and ENJOY your secret admirer note! There's no law that says the secret admirer can't be you.
Reply:its childish


and could do more harm than good


what if he got something delivered that said that?


i do not think you would appreciate it one bit


and even if you confessed it was you i doubt he would believe you


play with fire-you will get burned
Reply:This is pretty immature. You're basically lying - not to make yourself feel better, but to manipulate someone else.


This isn't a very healthy relationship if you have to resort to tricks like this.





Just tell your partner straight out that you sent them to yourself because you DESERVE flowers, and no one else is providing what you need.
Reply:Bad? No.


Immature? Yes.





It could cause more problems in the long run. Like, what if he doesn't even get jelous?
Reply:Its a little juvenile. Even more so if you guys are in a relationship. But if it works..... lol
Reply:ahaha, not a bad idea, its kind of funny actually. hey whatever works in your favor! i might use that trick in the future lol.